The saying that your destiny lies in your hand is not strange to you. Let me ask you, do you really know what those words means? Do you know how it works? How can you control your life, future and destiny? The answer is embedded in this adage which I'll explain shortly:
watch your thoughts because they'll become words
select your words because they'll become your actions
understand your actions because they'll become you habits
study your habit because they'll become your character
develop your character because they 'll become your destiny.
It means that: