How to Overcome Shyness and Become 100% Confident (2)

Let Us Go Deep Into the Problem

Shyness is an uncomfortable feeling that prevents you from being yourself when you are around people.

Different situations and experiences stimulate shyness in different people: what makes you confident might make the next person shy. You may be confident in singing, dancing and making humor but shy in meeting new people.

When you feel shy, you become self-conscious, tensed and nervous. Most times, you are not sure of the right thing to say or do. As a result, you feel reluctant to act and speak.

These reactions are caused mainly by 2 facts;

“How To Overcome Shyness And Become 100% Confident.”

Why you should quit shyness

Shyness has been with man for as long as history can remember. Everybody, in one time of his life or the other, has experienced shyness.

Today, shyness has become a major barrier preventing so many people from attaining their goals and ambitions in life.

Shyness does nothing good for you. It rubs you of the opportunity to fully express yourself and enjoy your life to the highest level.

Socially, it repels people from you because; people are uncomfortable being around shy and nervous people.

You miss out in the joy of meeting new people and building fulfilling relationships. Thus, you feel lonely and unhappy.

How to Set and Achieve Your Goals

Every achieved goal starts from the mind. It starts with being aware (or conscious) of an unsatisfied need (or desire). These unsatisfied needs are what you know as problems.

That you are hungry and need food is a problem.

That you lack money is a problem.

That you're lonely and needs company is a problem.

That there is no peace in the world is a problem.

These problems need solutions. The decision to solve these problems is what is called goal setting.

Before setting a goal, you have to know whether the goal is realistic.

How Your Goals Controls Your Happiness and Future.

Your goals determine to a large extend, the quality of your life.

They define your level of happiness, success and fulfillment. This is so because your goals originate from your needs (which are the root of your emotions and feelings). Thus, you set goals and achieve them in order to satisfy your needs.

The more goals you achieve, the more your needs are satisfied and the happier and more satisfied you become.

Something That You Need To Know In Order To Live The Life Of Your Dreams.

The whole human race has sort to know the secret of successful living. You've asked yourself so many questions and tried to answer them satisfactorily.

One of them is probably, ''what do you want from life and how can you get it?''you probably would have asked yourself this question several times with no satisfactory answer.

To answer this, lets look at a fact about the human nature.

''Discover How You Can Become Whom You Want To Be In This Life''

The saying that your destiny lies in your hand is not strange to you. Let me ask you, do you really know what those words means? Do you know how it works? How can you control your life, future and destiny? The answer is embedded in this adage which I'll explain shortly:

watch your thoughts because they'll become words
select your words because they'll become your actions
understand your actions because they'll become you habits
study your habit because they'll become your character
develop your character because they 'll become your destiny.

It means that: